Mothers Day is approaching, and with it, a flurry of hand written cards, hasty trips to the shops by dads, husbands, sons, daughters and partners, a myriad of school and pre school stalls, the busying of florists, jewellers, beauticians, and the stacking of installations of cards in post offices, shops, corner stores, and petrol stations. These are the Mother's Day Musings of The Celebrant's Network's guest blogger Lisa Philipsen....
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We have birthdays, mother's day and father's day... but what about everybody else in our family? When do we celebrate them?
Throughout our lives there are many milestones that we traditionally celebrate... birthdays, coming of age, weddings, anniversaries, etc... and we celebrate them because in doing so we gain a sense of belonging and achievement, like we've reached a goal, we've finally arrived at a particular stage of our lives.
We made it!
Celebrating these special moments in our lives can give us a special sense of meaning and happiness.....
... but what about all the other moments that don't get the same social recognition?
What about the wonderful moments inbetween those big events?
A beautiful sunrise
That job prmotion
A perfectly still ocean
Your indoor netball granfinal win
Your favourite bottle of wine is on sale
Funny cat photos and videos
A fresh new notebook
Reading the papers on a Sunday
Making somebody laugh
A cool breeze on a hot day
Freshly cut flowers
Getting the USB plug in the right way first go
Successfully using chopsticks
Each of us will have our own list of little moments that fill in the space between the big events and each and every one of them should be celebrated.
Some moments in life are meant to be celebrated publicly, with family, friends and sometimes with a celebrant.....
.... and other moments are meant for us to simply enjoy on our own.
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Father's Day is celebrated worldwide to recognise the contribution that fathers and father figures make to the lives of their children. The day is celebrated on different days in different countries, and in Australia, along with New Zealand, Fiji and Papua New Guinea we celebrate it on the 1st Sunday in September.
Here are some alternative ideas that might just make dad's day.
1. Let him sleep in. If dad usually has to get up early because of work or kids or sport.... let him sleep in on Sunday.
2. Ask him what he would like to do - let him make the decisions and choices all day.
5. Plan a day full of surprises that dad will love.
5. Just spend time with your dad - go for a walk or sit and talk.
6. Invite all the family around - uncles, grandfathers, step fathers
7. Be creative - Make a special slide show, write a song or create a book about all the things you love about your dad.
If you'd like to speak to a TCN Celebrant about how you could add ceremony into your father's day celebrations - Click HERE to find the closest celebrant to you.
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Family:
The idea of the ‘traditional’ family of Mum and Dad and the kids has changed tremendously over the last 50 years. No longer are you required to be in a heterosexual
Today’s families are diverse; culturally, genderly and ethnically mixed and should be celebrated.
In many countries around the world you can find:
* Children who are adopted and fostered and can be raised by grandparents or other relatives
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* Single parents
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* Families that consist of two parents who don’t live in the same house
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* Children who will grow up with step parents and step siblings, half siblings and extra grandparents
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* Parents/couples who can be different genders, the same gender, transgender or not identify with a gender at all
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* Children who don’t identify with the gender they were assigned at birth
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* Families with members who live with a disability
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*Couples who do not to have children
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* People who choose to complete their family with a fur baby.
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* Loving partnerships that bring together families from different cultures or nationalities
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* Families that can be made up of a group of people who are not blood related to them at all
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This is just a short list of the different kinds of families that can be found in Australia and around the world and there's one thing for certain....
If you would like to find out how you can celebrate your family, please speak to a TCN Celebrant today.
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On further reading, it was actually Catholic and Protestant Christians in certain parts of Europe in the 16th century that held aside a day called "Mothering Sunday" which fell on the fourth Sunday in Lent, exactly three weeks before Easter Day. This was the day that people would visit their "mother" church, - the church that they'd been baptised in, and being that it was the only day that family would be able to get together, it also became an occasion to honour their own mothers.
Mother's Day in Australia, is celebrated on the second Sunday in May. In 1924 it became a day to honour mothers and give them gifts when a woman from Sydney, Janet Heyden began visiting patients at the Newington State Home for Women. She met many lonley and forgotten mothers and to cheer them up, she rounded up support from local school children and businesses to donate and bring gifts to the women. Each year the day got bigger and bigger and thanks to florists and confectionery companies, became quiet commercialised. The chrysanthemum becoming the traditional flower to give mums on Mother's Day.
the house and bringing her flowers and gifts….
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If she’s anything like my mum you will probably find her tidying up after all those activities and arranging the lunch herself!
Ahh, a mother’s work is never done!
TCN would like to gently push Mother's Day into the future... to a time where we don't simpy give Mum a card and some flowers from the petrol station and be
done with it, but that we look at the Day as a chance to honour our Mum and celebrate her achievements and say thank you for all that she's done for us.
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Here are some different ideas to celebrate your Mum on Mother's Day...
Plant Some Memories...
Spend the day in the garden with Mum planting some of her favourite flowers that together you can water and look after. Spending this quality time with you
mum will make her feel loved, needed and apprecated.
Mother’s Day Selfie...
Start another family tradition of taking funny selfies of your family with your Mum as the central figure. Then you can print them out and make a
collage of the day. You can look back on that every day and remember how special your Mum is.
A Family Reunion...
Gather all your beloved family members together at a park or someone’s backyard and before you bbq and share out the potato salad, take turns to share
how you feel about your Mum, what she means to you and why you're grateful to have her in your life.
Share in Mum’s Hobbies...
Gardening might be her passion, she might like funny movies, or she might just love pottering in the kitchen making those mini cakes she’s
famous for - get in there with her. Learn, laugh and love.
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Surprise Mum with a “This Is Your Life” Ceremony...
Take a walk down memory lane and create a book of all Mum’s accomplishments throughout her life.
All you need to do is speak to a celebrant and together you can pull off the most fantastic surprise for your Mum.
Give Mum the Day Off and Leave Her Alone...
No cooking, no cleaning, no washing, no picking up after anybody - just a day of pure bliss. If Mum has small children, sometimes all she wants
is to have some quiet time to herself to read the paper, or go to the toilet in peace.... then once she has had some time - then you celebrate her - big time!
To me, my Mum is more than just my Mum - she’s my best friend and it brings a tear to my eye to even say the words ‘I’d be lost without her’, but there are lots of
people out there who will be celebrating Mother’s Day without their Mums.
Your Mum will always be special and it's important to keep them in your memory.
Make her favourite recipe...
Dig out that scone recipe that your Mum used to make and think about her with every turn of the wooden spoon, then lovingly whip some cream and with each
bite, remember all the wonderful things about your Mum. You could also invite family around to share in the love with you, sharing memories and stories.
Hold a Day of Remembering...
Not too unlike a memorial, but a lot happier. Gather the people who were close to your Mum together, ask them to bring with them something that reminds them of her and each speak about the wonderful person that she was and the amazing legacy that she has left for you all. You could incorporate a TCN Celebrant to assist you in arranging the day and keeping it flowing so that you can be completely immersed in the memories and the feelings of the day.
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Make a patchwork quilt...
My Mum has a thousand scarves and each one reminds me of a different event, a different place and a different smile. Imagine sewing all those memories
together into one glorious patchwork quilt to wrap yourself up in on Mother's Day.
CLICK HERE to find some more lovely ideas to keep Mum close with you this Mother’s Day.
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